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2021 is right around the corner … finally! Are you making resolutions this year? Here are nine New Year’s Resolutions that put your mental health first.
Catch Your Zzz’s
It’s no secret that getting enough sleep supports your physical well-being, but it also affects your mental health too. Insufficient sleep can increase your risk of a number of unfavorable conditions, including heart disease, type 2 diabetes, and depression. Some psychiatric conditions (including bipolar disorder, anxiety disorders, and depression) can cause sleep problems. In addition, insufficient sleep can even exacerbate the symptoms of many mental conditions including depression, anxiety disorders, and bipolar disorder.
So how much sleep do you need? It depends on your age. The National Sleep Foundation suggests the following:
Your Age | Recommended Hours of Sleep from the NSF | |
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Newborn | 0–3 months | 14–17 hours |
Infant | 4–12 months | 12–16 hours |
Toddler | 1–2 years | 11–14 hours |
Preschool | 3–5 years | 10–13 hours |
Elementary School Age | 6–12 years | 9–12 hours |
Teen | 13–18 years | 8–10 |
Adult | 18–60 years | 7–9 hours |
61–64 years | 7–9 hours | |
65 years and older | 7–8 hours |
If you make “practice better sleep hygiene” as one of your New Year’s resolutions, here are a few tips you can use to help you accomplish this:
- Try to go to bed at the same time every night
- Avoid blue lights for 1-2 hours before bed (You can learn more about warm lights in this post: Do Warm Lights Help You Sleep Better?)
- Sleep in a cool, dark room (cool refers to a few degrees cooler than room temperature)
- Exercise during the day
- Spend some time in the sunshine (it helps to reset your circadian rhythm)
Exercise More
Exercise not only helps you sleep better at night, but it also supports your mental health in other ways too. Studies show that aerobic exercises help to reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression. Exercise also:
- Boosts your mood
- Reduces stress
- Reduces the likelihood of social withdrawal
- Boosts self-confidence
Examples of aerobic exercise include running, jogging, dancing, walking, hiking, swimming, and playing tennis.
If you make “exercise more” as your resolution, remember that exercise regimens don’t have to be arduous. There are plenty of fun ways to add more physical activity into your daily routine. Even walking your dog an extra 10 minutes can add up over time.
Find a New Hobby
Did you know that hobbies are good for your mental health? According to the Australian Government Health Department, hobbies can boost self-confidence, promote feelings of relaxation, reduce stress, and improve overall happiness.
Here are a few examples of popular hobbies:
- Sports and exercise
- Music
- Art, including drawing, sculpting, painting
- Knitting and crocheting
- Baking
- Reading
- Journaling
- Gardening
- Fishing
You don’t need to be an expert to participate in a hobby. It’s about spending time doing an activity you enjoy.
Meditate
According to Mental Health America, meditating is great for your mental health. It can reduce stress, reduce the symptoms of anxiety and depression, and even help lessen chronic pain.
If “meditate more” is your resolution, you can find many ways to include more meditations into your weekly routine:
- Apps like Headspace
- Books
- Online guided meditations
Get a Planner
Getting organized can help you organize thoughts and reduce anxiety from last-minute scrambling or missed appointments. Keeping a planner can also support your mental health because you can stay on top of appointments, medication schedules, etc. Using a planner (either paper or through an app) can help you stay organized when your life — and health — feel overwhelming.
Volunteer
Did you know that volunteering also supports your mental health? According to the Mayo Clinic Health System, volunteering decreases the risk of depression.
If “volunteer more” is one of your New Year’s resolutions this year, you don’t even have to leave home. Here is a list of 20+ virtual volunteer opportunities.
Get Back to Nature
Spending time in nature can also support your mental health. Sunshine and fresh air can reset your circadian rhythm, which helps you get enough sleep. The experts at Harvard suggest that even 20 minutes spent outside can make a big difference.
If “spend time in nature” is one of your resolutions, read this article to explore a few ideas for spending time outside.
Develop an Attitude of Gratitude
Giving thanks and cultivating an attitude of gratitude can increase your happiness, according to the experts at Harvard.
If “be more thankful” is one of your New Year’s resolutions, you can boost your gratitude by writing more thank you notes, meditating, and keeping a gratitude journal (and re-reading on days you feel blue).
How to Keep a Gratitude Journal (for You and Your Kids!)
Keeping a gratitude journal is a great way to combat anxious thoughts. In fact, writing in a gratitude journal is shown to improve emotional resilience and reduce stress. There are many ways to keep a gratitude journal, but here are some tips:
- Journal first thing in the morning to start the day on a positive note
- End the day with a quick reflection about things you were grateful for over the course of the day
- If your child can’t write yet, she or he can draw pictures instead
You can download our free printable Gratitude Journal. Print out the journal and let your child explore the concept of gratitude. With 50+ pages, your child will have nearly two months of journaling!
Practice More Positive Self-Talk
How you talk to yourself matters, and incorporating more positive self-talk can make a big difference.
If “practice more positive self-talk” is one of your New Year’s resolutions, here are ten to get you started:
- I am capable and strong.
- Attempting to do X took courage, and I am proud of myself for trying.
- Even though this wasn’t the outcome I anticipated, I learned a lot about myself during this process.
- I am proud of how far I have already come even if I still have a ways to go.
- I can get through this.
- Tomorrow is another opportunity to try again, and I can utilize the lessons I learned from today.
- I will do my best.
- I can’t control what other people say, do, or think, but I can control my thoughts, words, and actions.
- This is an opportunity for me to try a new way to do X.
- I am learning from this situation, and I can grow as a person.
The Best New Year’s Resolution: Ask for Help When You Need It
Even with all of these resolutions, it’s not always enough. The best thing you can to do support your mental health is to ask for help if you need it. As a multidisciplinary practice, we can support a variety of mental health conditions with therapy, medication, lifestyle changes, coaching, and more.
Here at Next Step 2 Mental Health, we provide comprehensive mental health care for adults (and children too!). We’re just a call or click away. Call 502-339-2442 or send us a message to request more information.
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A United Kingdom-based mental health charity, Mind, explored the connection between anxiety and the holiday season. Let’s take a look at a few stats that highlight how the festive season impacts people living with anxiety:
- Three out of four people who have a diagnosed anxiety disorder report trouble sleeping around the holidays
- More than 60% of the surveyed participants reported a panic attack during the holiday season
- 36% of participants admitted to engaging in self-harm to cope, and another 52% considered self-harm
With these stats in mind, we want to shed light on how the holidays can impact those with anxiety – and what you can do to make the holidays a little easier for them.
1. Opening Gifts
Giving and receiving gifts is a hallmark of the Christmas season. It can be an exciting, joyous time, but for some people with anxiety, opening gifts can be a trigger. For example, it can be very uncomfortable to have all eyes on you as you open up a present. You’re on the spot. You might worry if you react the right way. What if you don’t love the gift? What if they don’t love the gift? Even if you love opening gifts, it’s important to recognize that not all people love the spotlight.
How to support a loved one with anxiety: If you know that opening gifts is anxiety-producing, ask your loved one how they’d like to handle the situation. For example, everyone opening their own gifts at the same time can be much less stressful than watching each person one at a time open presents.
2. Socializing at Christmas Parties
Granted this year’s holiday party schedule is likely very different due to the pandemic, there are still plenty of ways to socialize at Christmas: social distancing get-togethers, virtual parties via Zoom, or increased phone calls with extended families and friends.
Socializing – whether that’s in person or virtually – can be overwhelming for those with social anxiety.
How to support a loved one with anxiety: Avoiding all socializing (whether that’s at Christmas or any other time of the year) is tempting for those with social anxiety disorder, but avoidance isn’t helpful in the long run. Gently encourage your loved one to participate, and how ask how you can support them. Some people may find that arriving early to a get-together is easier because you can greet people one-at-a-time as they arrive rather than all at once.
3. Christmas Dinner Stress
The pressure is on! Planning and cooking a Christmas dinner can be stressful. It’s not uncommon to lose sleep over planning a big meal. Planning the menu can be overwhelming especially if Uncle Tim doesn’t eat meat and Aunt Peg is doing keto – trying to please everyone can be a nightmare! The Irish have a term for this: Christmas Day Syndrome.
How to support a loved one with anxiety: Be understanding of the task at hand. Not everyone asks for help, so don’t hesitate to offer your help first. Doing as much prep as you can early can also help alleviate headaches.
4. Financial Stress
Financial strain can be a big source of anxiety, and the holidays can really stretch the budget. Between gifts, decorations, and food for Christmas parties, it can be overwhelming to see so much money spent so quickly.
How to support a loved one with anxiety: If you and your partner are sharing a budget for Christmas gifts, you can eliminate some strain by setting a budget and sticking with it. A budget can help eliminate the surprise and worry associated with a large credit card bill after Christmas.
5. Christmas Busy-ness
The weeks and days leading up to Christmas can be very busy. Between working regular hours, preparing for family gatherings, shopping, decorating, wrapping presents – there’s a lot going on! Busy schedules can cause stress. In fact, 81% of the UK Mind survey participants noted that most anxiety was triggered by the increased stress load.
How to support a loved one with anxiety: Help your loved divvy up any tasks to help lighten their load. Remind your loved one that you don’t have to do every single holiday tradition if it causing more stress than joy.
Anxiety Isn’t Just “Overly Stressed”
Anxiety can be very personal; what triggers one person doesn’t necessarily trigger another person. If your loved one is dealing with increased anxiety during Christmas, remember it’s not that he or she hates the holiday. The best thing you can do to support a loved one is to be considerate of how they feel even if you don’t understand why. Let your loved one know that you are there to talk. You can also take the time to learn more about anxiety disorders. Anxiety can be a severe, debilitating condition. While stress can trigger anxiety, it is more than just being “overly sensitive” or “worrying too much”.
Anxiety at Christmas … and Beyond the Holidays
Here at Next Step 2 Mental Health, we want to help you feel better no matter what time of year it is. If you or a loved one are struggling with anxiety, we encourage you to seek the help you deserve. Remember, seeking help is always a sign of strength. We take a multidisciplinary approach when it comes to managing anxiety. From medication management to therapy (including CBT) to online courses, we are with you every step of your journey.
Give us a call at our Louisville, Kentucky office at 502-339-2442, or send us a message to request more information.
10 Self-Care Ideas to Try If You’re Feeling Sad This Thanksgiving
Holidays can be a time of joy and togetherness, but sometimes holidays can be stressful or even sad. Spending the holiday alone may be the result of conflicting schedules, familial issues, or the financial strain of traveling. This year, however, the COVID-19 pandemic has halted Thanksgiving plans across the globe. Regardless of what’s having you feel a little blue this Thanksgiving, it’s important to focus on the things you are grateful for — and that includes yourself too! Taking time to practice self-care during the holidays can help make your day a little easier.
1. Make Time for Your Favorite Things
Thanksgiving is just one day, but between all the cleaning, cooking, prepping snacks, decorating, it can consume your weekly agenda. This Thanksgiving, allow time for some of your favorite activities. Even it’s just 30 minutes of knitting, working on a new art project, or reading your favorite book — your favorite things can help you feel good. You can also schedule in fun quarantine-safe activities so your household can join in on the fun too. Check out this list of 17 Thanksgiving Day ideas here.
2. Reframe Your Mindset
If you’re missing out on Thanksgiving with your family — because of travel restrictions or work obligations — try to reframe your mindset. Instead of viewing the day as a missed opportunity, try to see your day as a solo staycation, or even as a day of rest and relaxation.
Bottom line: try to look at the day as one of a gained opportunity (for some well-deserved R&R) rather than a loss.
3. Treat Yourself to Your Favorite Foods
You can even reframe what “Thanksgiving Dinner” looks like. You don’t have to recreate your Grandma’s famous roasted turkey if you don’t want. You might prefer spaghetti and meatballs or French toast and bacon — whatever makes your staycation feel complete.
Even if you indulge in a slice of pumpkin pie, don’t skip your veggies! Eating nutrient-dense meals helps to support your mental health. Salmon, chia seeds, walnuts, and avocados are good for your brain too!
4. Stay Active
Exercise is a well-known mood lifter. Here are some ideas to fit a little physical activity into your Thanksgiving schedule:
- Take a walk around the block. Not only does this provide fresh scenery, but you also benefit from the sunshine and fresh air.
- Turn on a dance workout on YouTube and dance your way to a better mood.
- Play fetch with your dog in the yard.
5. Volunteer Your Time
Did you know that volunteering can boost your mood and help fend off the feelings of depression? Studies show that volunteering is a powerful anti-depressant, and even with restrictions this year, you can find ways to volunteer. You might:
- Make cards for a nursing home
- Offer to walk dogs at an animal shelter
- Participate in virtual volunteer opportunities
6. Find Something That Makes You Laugh
Whether you giggle to yourself or let a big guffaw, laughing can be good medicine. According to the experts at Mayo Clinic, laughter can:
- Reduce stress levels
- Stimulate your heart, lungs, and muscles
- Increases endorphin levels in your brain
- Relax you
- Ease tension in your body
That’s not all, though. Laughter can also boost your immune system, improve your mood, and increase your sense of personal satisfaction. Not too shabby! Treat yourself to a funny movie, sit back, and laugh!
7. Connect with Others
- Facetime or Zoom while you eat dinner. It’s not the same as dining in person, but you can still share in the moment.
- Call a friend or family member and “prep” together. Use your headphones and dice, chop, and bake while engaging in friendly conversation.
- Video conference with your extended family and ask everyone to share one thing they are grateful for this year.
8. Start a Gratitude Journal
Keeping a gratitude journal is a great way to lift your mood. In fact, writing in a gratitude journal is shown to improve emotional resilience and reduce stress. There are many ways to keep a gratitude journal, but here are some tips:
- Journal first thing in the morning to start the day on a positive note
- End the day with a quick reflection about things you were grateful for over the course of the day
- If your child can’t write yet, she or he can draw pictures instead
Does your child want to journal with you? You can download our free printable Gratitude Journal.
Print out the journal and let your child explore the concept of gratitude. With 50+ pages, your child will have nearly two months of journaling!
9. Listen to Music
Studies have shown that listening to music can lift your mood and reduce the feelings of depression. Music can also lower your levels of stress-related hormones (e.g., cortisol). While Time Magazine reports that “calming music” is subjective, the tracks with a slow tempo, gradual chord progressions, and drawn-out notes have the best relaxing effects.
10. Get Help If You Need It
Even with self-care strategies and Zoom calls to feel connected with friends, sometimes it’s not enough to feel better. If you experience the symptoms of depression or anxiety, don’t brush them off. Anxiety and depression can be treated with therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes. With the right support and strategies, you can feel better.
Here at Next Step 2 Mental Health, we provide comprehensive mental health care for children (and adults too!). Whether you are just experiencing depression/anxiety for the first time this year, or you’ve been struggling a while, we can help. Call 502-339-2442 or send us a message to request more information.
1-in-5 Recovering COVID-19 Patients Are Diagnosed with a Mental Illness Within 90 Days
A new study followed 62,354 patients who contracted COVID-19 between January and August
New research published on November 9, 2020 in The Lancet Psychiatry journal shows 20% of people who contracted and recovered from the coronavirus were diagnosed with a mental illness within 14-90 days after testing positive.
Researchers followed 6.8 million patients (62,354 of those patients were diagnosed with COVID-19 between January 20 and August 1, 2020). According to the data, 20% of those who had COVID-19 were later diagnosed with a psychiatric disorder, dementia, anxiety, or insomnia.
Maxine Taquet, PhD et all conclude their report:
“Survivors of COVID-19 appear to be at increased risk of psychiatric sequelae, and a psychiatric diagnosis might be an independent risk factor for COVID-19 […] Although preliminary, our findings have implications for clinical services, and prospective cohort studies are warranted.”
Note that sequelae refers to a condition that develops as the result of a previous disease or injury.
As of this writing, there have been more than 10.9 million confirmed cases of COVID-19 in the United States, according to data compiled by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
You can read the full study here.
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This is an emerging headline and researchers are calling for more studies to be conducted. In the meantime, please know that our team is available when concerns like these emerge.
At NextStep 2 Mental Health, we’re happy to provide comprehensive psychiatric care. If you or a loved one is struggling with your mental health during this time, we are here to help you — whether your symptoms are new or not. Call 502-339-2442 or fill out this form to request an appointment.
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What Is CBT and How Does CBT Help with Anxiety?
Anxiety disorders are extremely common. About 40 million American adults are affected by an anxiety disorder each year. Anxiety disorders can profoundly impact the quality of your life, and even though anxiety is treatable, almost 40% of those with anxiety don’t get the treatment they need. Here at Next Step 2 Mental Health, we know that anxiety can affect many aspects of your life, but with treatment, it’s possible to thrive. Our compassionate team consists of board-certified psychiatrists and licensed psychologists so you can get the anxiety treatment you need, whether that’s medication, therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) — or a combination.
If you’re starting to explore your anxiety treatment options, you might wonder what CBT is. In this article, we’ll explore what CBT is and how it fits into your anxiety treatment plan.
What is CBT?
“One of the best treatments for anxiety is cognitive behavioral therapy,” Dr. Dan Guy explains in his course on anxiety and ADHD.
But what is CBT?
CBT is a psychotherapeutic treatment, and it’s used to treat several conditions. CBT can be used to treat anxiety, depression, phobias, and even eating disorders. Regardless of why you’re seeking CBT, it functions under the same principles: you’ll learn how to identify negative thought patterns that increase anxiety, how to change negative thought patterns, and how to make sense of an overwhelming issue by examining its smaller parts.
This therapy is designed to show how situations, automatic negative thoughts (ANTs), emotions (that form as a result of ANTs), physical feelings (that form from emotions), and actions (inspired by our emotions) are all connected. In other words, any thought you have about a particular problem directly affect your feelings about the event and how you feel physically and how you react in response. If you can change your thought patterns and avoid the negative thought patterns, you can start to overcome overwhelming thoughts and situations.
To recap: CBT operates under the theory that psychological problems are based (in part) on faulty thinking batters and unhelpful behaviors. CBT is designed to interrupt this cycle, to reframe thinking patterns and establish more helpful behaviors for coping.
How Does CBT Work?
CBT can help treat your anxiety by focusing on how you think and act but what exactly does that look like in practice? Here’s how CBT works:
1. Identify Negative Thoughts
“To manage anxiety, you’ve got to deal with the ANTs,” Dr. Guy says. The ANTs, of course, refer to automatic negative thoughts, and that’s where therapy starts. You’ll first have to identify the negative (or maladaptive) thoughts.
As you start to explore your negative thought patterns, you’ll also learn how those thoughts contribute to your behaviors.
For instance, if you have social anxiety, simply thinking about giving a speech can cause physical symptoms such as increased heart rate — and this can influence the actions you take. Identifying all of your negative thoughts is a vital component of your therapy and your overall progress.
2. Practice New Skills
Now it’s time to get rid of the ANTs! Once you’ve identified your negative thought patterns, you’ll be able to start implementing new skills. Your specific skills will vary depending on what your specific triggers are.
The key though is that the skills and strategies you learn during CBT sessions can be applied to real-life situations.
3. Monitor Your Progress
Through your journey, you can monitor your progress by setting goals. For example, if social anxiety leads you to avoid all social gatherings, your first goal likely isn’t going to be karaoke night a friend’s house. Instead, you may set smaller goals such as to practice having a quiet conversation with just one or two friends.
Goals aren’t arbitrary. They are specific, realistic, and — most importantly — easily measured. This means you can see and track your own progress easily.
CBT Doesn’t Have to Stand Alone
One of the benefits of CBT is that you don’t have to choose between CBT or other treatments. We can combine CBT with other anxiety treatments, such as lifestyle changes, anxiety prevention strategies, and medication management.
Get the Anxiety Relief You Need
Here at Next Step 2 Mental Health, we want to help you feel better. That’s why we take a multidisciplinary approach when it comes to managing anxiety. From medication management to therapy (including CBT) to online courses, we are with you every step of your journey.
Give us a call at our Louisville, Kentucky office at 502-339-2442, or send us a message to request more information.
You can also request an appointment with our convenient scheduling tool here.
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7 Ways to Manage Social Anxiety
Did you know that social anxiety is just one type of anxiety? There are five different anxiety disorders: generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), panic disorder, and social anxiety. Social anxiety, like other forms of anxiety, is characterized by intense worry. In the case of social anxiety, anxiety symptoms are heightened in everyday social situations.
At the Next Step, our team of experts is experienced in diagnosing and treating all types of anxiety. If you experience any of the symptoms of anxiety, we encourage you to visit us so can get the relief you need.
In the meantime, here are seven ways you can manage social anxiety.
1. Try Deep Breathing
Deep breathing exercises can help you reap the benefits of slow, steady breathing. Deep breathing exercises focus on deep breaths from your diaphragm. This is a useful skill as these exercises can also help relax your mind and body in uncomfortable social situations.
To explore two types of deep breathing, watch the video below. We’ll focus on triangle breaths and squares breaths.
WHY IT WORKS
Deep breathing triggers your parasympathetic nervous system and shifts your body away from flight or fight mode. Your parasympathetic nervous system is sometimes called the “rest and digest” system. So when this nervous system is stimulated, your body feels relaxed.
And when your body feels relaxed, your mind also feels relaxed, which can help you cope in social settings.
2. Spot Negative Thoughts (and Create Alternative Thoughts)
Dr. Dan Guy shares the first step to overcoming anxiety: “You’ve got to overcome the ANTS, or automatic negative thoughts.”
Automatic negative thoughts are automatic (and faulty) patterns of thinking can make social anxiety symptoms worse. There are many different types of negative thought patterns, including mind-reading, fortune-telling, and blame.
An ANT could sound like this:
- “Everyone here at this party knows how anxious I am.”
- “The whole restaurant is annoyed that I walked in here. They are all staring directly at me. ”
Negative thought patterns can be very bothersome, and unfortunately, they can become automatic. You can work to identify and overcome negative thought patterns, though. You can overcome negative thoughts by identifying them — and then coming up with alternative thoughts. For example, “Everyone is not ignoring me because I was late. They are simply engrossed in the speaker at the event.”
3. Learn to Face Your Fears
Avoiding social situations might temporarily reduce social anxiety, but in the long run, avoidance can severely impact your quality of life. Learning to face your fears can help you learn to cope so that you can enjoy social outings. If fear of public speaking is on your list, explore ways to face this fear in small, controlled settings. For example, you might volunteer to read the instructions out loud at a family game night. This is a smaller step and much more manageable than jumping into karaoke night with strangers.
There are many little things you can do on a daily basis to help you manage social anxiety. For example, arriving at dinner (or a meeting) early allows you time to mentally prepare. This also gives you the opportunity to greet friends (or co-workers) one at a time as they arrive.
4. Practice Self-Care
Self-care goes a long way in supporting your mental health. This includes:
- Eating a well-balanced diet
- Getting quality sleep each night
Researchers found that inadequate sleep can increase feelings of loneliness and make it harder to connect with others. Aim for 7-9 hours of sleep each night, especially before a big event. A solid diet can support your mood, energize you, and help you avoid blood sugar crashes.
5. Exercise
If you have social anxiety, exercise is helpful in a few ways. Exercise can:
- Relax you
- Boost your mood thanks to endorphins
- Provide an opportunity to practice social skills
- Supports your frontal cortex and strengthens your executive function skills (which then helps you deal with real or potential threats)
Bonus: Exercise in nature, if you can. Studies show that the combination of exercise and nature provides even more anxiety-reducing effects.
6. Learn about Social Anxiety
If you or a loved one struggle with anxiety, it’s important to learn as much as you can about the topic. You can
- Read books (here’s a list of anxiety books recommended by the American Anxiety and Depression Association)
- Take an online course (we have one that covers the link between anxiety and ADHD)
- Talk to your mental health care provider
Tip: Reading about anxiety can help you learn more about the condition, but even the act of reading can help you relax. Reading can relax your calm, reduce your heart rate, and ease the tension in your muscles. Researchers from the University of Sussex determined that reading can reduce stress levels by nearly 70%, according to a 2009 study. It works better and faster than other relaxation methods, like listening to calming music. Although, you can pair hot tea, calming music, and reading for a great relaxing activity.
7. Seek Help When You Need It
Even if you implement these strategies for reducing anxiety, you still might benefit from professional help. Remember, asking for help is never a sign of weakness. Here at Next Step 2 Mental Health, we provide comprehensive and compassionate anxiety treatment — no matter which type of anxiety you have. Whether you’ve been struggling with anxiety for years or current events have triggered your anxiety, we can help you feel better.
Give us a call at our Louisville, Kentucky office at 502-339-2442, or send us a message to request more information.
You can also click here to request an appointment with our convenient scheduling tool here.
References:
- https://www.hhs.gov/answers/mental-health-and-substance-abuse/what-are-the-five-major-types-of-anxiety-disorders/index.html
- https://www.sciencedaily.com/terms/parasympathetic_nervous_system.htm#:~:text=The%20parasympathetic%20nervous%20system%20is,muscles%20in%20the%20gastrointestinal%20tract.
13 Ways to Help Children Cope with Back-to-School Anxiety
An upset stomach. Nightmares. Unrelenting desire to avoid school. Difficulty sleeping. Temper tantrums and crying outbursts. These are all examples of how anxiety can manifest in children. Sometimes, these signs of anxiety are attributed to other causes i.e., a stomachache from eating a rich meal before bed. Anxiety can be hidden in plain sight, but as we enter back-to-school season, you might start to see the signs of back-to-school anxiety.
Mental healthcare providers have noted a 17% increase in anxiety cases in children in the past decade, according to the Child Mind Institute. And the current pandemic has only contributed to the increasing spike in anxiety cases, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Anxiety in children is treatable, but because it can be hidden or missed, as many as 80% of children aren’t getting the anxiety treatment they need.
As your child is preparing to go back to school, you might start to see signs of anxiety. Anxiety is more than just worries — it can affect your child’s personal life as well as academic performance.
Children who are worried and anxious aren’t doing it to get out of going to school. In fact, your child’s nervous system functions all on its own, especially when it comes to worry and fear. If your child senses fear, his or her nervous system kicks into action and triggers fight or flight reflexes. This is why phrases like “don’t worry” or “just relax” or “calm down” aren’t helpful — even though they seem like the right thing to say.
With a little practice and guidance from you, your child can learn to slow down his or her anxious brain. Here are a few ways you can help your child manage back-to-school anxiety this fall.
1. Practice Deep Breathing Exercise
When children feel anxious, they may subconsciously take shallow, quick breaths. These chest breaths can increase heart rate, muscle tension, and even contribute to dizziness. Taking slow, deep breaths can help you shift from chest breathing to abdominal breathing. When children slow down their breathing, it helps to shift out of flight or fight mode so their body can relax. Isn’t science cool?! Slow, deep breaths — that’s the key!
You can do square breathing or triangle breathing, or you can follow along with guided meditations. The following videos are cute ways to introduce the idea of deep belly breathing to young children.
Rainbow Breathing
Whale Breath Singalong
Once your child learns how to belly breathe, he or she can practice deep breaths before bed — or any time during the school day when he needs a quick reset.
2. Spend Time in Nature
Nature is healing, and it can do wonders for easing anxious thoughts. Sometimes children benefit from simply changing up the scenery. This is especially helpful if your child is participating in e-learning and just needs to get out of the house. As your child breathes in the fresh air, feels the breeze rustle his hair, or listens to the birds chirp, his thoughts are gently calmed.
This is a great opportunity to practice a grounding technique. Monica Clark, LPA, explains this technique:
If you find yourself beginning to lose focus, ground yourself in the moment. One effective grounding technique is the 5-4-3-2-1 Game. In this technique, you ground yourself in the physical environment by naming:
- 5 things you can see
- 4 things you can hear
- 3 things you can feel against your skin
- 2 things you can smell
- 1 thing you can taste
Ask your child to describe the smells, find green leaves, describe the texture of a pebble.
3. Talk about What Anxiety Is
“Anxiety is often regarded as something that is bad and should be eradicated completely. However, anxiety by itself isn’t necessarily bad. Anxiety is actually an emotion that helps us take care of dangerous situations — and respond to those situations. If we are aware of a potentially dangerous situation, we can avoid harm,” says Dr. Dan Guy.
In other words, worry and fear is designed to help us avoid potentially dangerous situations. For example, a stray dog charging at your may instill fear, and it’s that fear that ignites flight or fight mode — so you can take flight to safety. Problems arise when anxiety and fear is triggered outside of dangerous situations — like feeling physically anxious even if there isn’t a dog nearby.
It’s tempting to remove all anxiety triggers from your child because — as parents — we don’t want our child to be unhappy, but the goal is to help your child manage anxiety because experiencing some degree of anxiety is part of what it means to be human. For example, if your child is feeling anxious about this school year, he or she may ask to skip a day of school. While skipping a day of school might temporarily ease his mind, it won’t be helpful in the long-term nor will it help him manage anxiety. Instead, it’s more helpful to teach a child how to manage anxiety.
Explore this great article of what you should (and shouldn’t) do when your child has anxiety.
4. Fit Fitness into Your Schedule
Exercise is good for your body and mind — and that’s true for children too. The above video depicts an easy at-home workout that your child can perform after work, but that’s not the only option. Other good-for-the-brain exercises include:
- Hiking
- Playing sports like soccer or basketball (even if it’s in your backyard)
- Rollerblading
- Biking
- Dancing
- Jump rope
Walking around the block or playing tag in the yard are good options too!
5. Go for a Walk Around the Block
We just talked about the importance of exercise, and this tip combines an exercise (walking) with some quality one-on-one time. If you go for a walk-and-talk with your child, you’ll experience three key benefits:
- A walk around the block removes your child from his environment ( a fresh scenery is always helpful)
- The quality time allows your child to express his or her feelings and frustrations and worries
- The exercise produces “happy” endorphins to lift your child’s mood
6. Think Positive by Introducing a Gratitude Journal
Keeping a gratitude journal is a great way to combat anxious thoughts. In fact, writing in a gratitude journal is shown to improve emotional resilience and reduce stress. There are many ways to keep a gratitude journal, but here are some tips:
- Journal first thing in the morning to start the day on a positive note
- End the day with a quick reflection about things you were grateful for over the course of the day
- If your child can’t write yet, she or he can draw pictures instead
You can download our free printable Gratitude Journal. Print out the journal and let your child explore the concept of gratitude. With 50+ pages, your child will have nearly two months of journaling!
7. Focus on Good Nutrition
Good nutrition impacts your mental health too! In fact, there are plenty of tasty brain-healthy foods, such as:
- Salmon
- Yogurt
- Turmeric
Not all kids enjoy salmon, but a yogurt-lemon-dill sauce may make the salmon more appetizing for kids. You can also make salmon loaf, which eliminates the fish texture that children might not like.
TIP: If your child has a stomachache caused by anxious thoughts, she or he may not feel like eating. If that’s the cause, offer more bland foods or a warm cup of chamomile tea.
8. Read a Story
Children can learn important life lessons through reading — plus, reading is a good bonding activity! Review this list of books via WeAreTeachers, and you might discover some great books for kids with anxiety.
9. Create a Safe Space
If your child is feeling overwhelmed, he or she may benefit from a cozy place to unwind after school. From fidget spinners to books to coloring books, this can be a great way for kids to process all of their thoughts after school — rather than jumping right into homework or chores.
10. Ask for Individual Accommodations
For some children, accommodations at school can make all the difference when it comes to anxiety. For example, if a student struggles with performance anxiety, he or she may not do well when taking tests. Some students benefit from individual accommodations such as extended time on tests. For other accommodations for kids who struggle with anxiety, check out this list from The Children’s and Adult Center for OCD and Anxiety.
11. Help Your Child Practice Good Sleep Hygiene
Poor sleep and anxiety often go hand-in-hand. Anxious thoughts can make it difficult to sleep, and poor sleep can exacerbate the symptoms of anxiety. Help your child practice good sleep hygiene, including:
- Going to bed at the same time every night
- Using warm-colored lights during his or her bedtime routine
- Sleeping in a cool, dark room
12. Go Over New Changes
Reduce back-to-school anxiety by going over any new changes with your child. Maybe your child feels unsure about the new rules at school. Be sure your child understands what the new rules are (when to wear masks, etc) to help cut back on some “fear of the unknown.” If your child is participating in e-learning, ask your child if he would like to review any of the technology. Sometimes just a quick refresher on what’s expected can go a long way in feeling confident about the new school year.
13. Reach Out to Your Child’s Mental Health Care Provider
The good news about anxiety is that it can be treated with therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes. With the right support and strategies, most children are able to develop strategies that help them manage their anxiety both in the classroom and at home.
Here at Next Step 2 Mental Health, we provide comprehensive mental health care for children (and adults too!). Whether your child is just now experiencing anxiety for the first time, or is seeing a resurgence in symptoms, we can help your child get the relief s/he deserves. Call 502-339-2442 or send us a message to request more information.
You can also request an appointment easily here. Learn MoreDo Warm-Colored Lights Help Sleep?
Perhaps you’ve noticed that e-readers, smartphones, and other tablets have an option called “night mode” — have you ever wondered what “night mode” is and why the screen turns orange? What’s up with these warm-colored lights?
There’s a lot of discussion about warm-colored lights and how they affect your ability to get a good night of sleep. Getting a good night of sleep is critical for your physical and mental well-being. According to researchers, many conditions, including depression, anxiety, and ADHD, can interfere with your sleep so it’s essential to prioritize quantity and quality sleep.
And the big question is: can warm-colored lights really help you sleep better?
To get to the bottom of this question, we spoke with Monica Clark, LPA to get some answers.
What Exactly Is a Warm-Colored Light?
“To fully understand the role that warm-colored (red, orange, and yellow) light plays in sleep, it is important to first understand your body’s natural circadian rhythms and how various types of light affect sleep-wake cycle,” Monica says. She continues, “Circadian rhythms are basically your body’s 24-hour clock that helps you to naturally alter between sleepiness and alertness at regular intervals. It is commonly referred to as your sleep-wake cycle. Circadian rhythms are impacted by both natural and artificial light. With regard to natural light, when your brain, the hypothalamus to be more precise, receives a message from your eyes that it is dark, your brain stimulates the production of melatonin, leading to sleepiness.
In the modern-world, we are surrounded by artificial lighting 24-hours per day. A large percentage of this artificial light utilizes LED technology, which research has shown to emit blue light. LED lighting is found in many light bulbs, but also in back-lit electronics, such as televisions, computer screens, tablets, smart phones, and e-readers. Using these devices or being in a room lit with LED bulbs can serve to increase alertness and arousal in the brain and have a negative impact on sleep. [7] Research has supported that the brain is most sensitive to the impact of artificial light during the evening hours. [1] Additionally, there is some research to suggest that artificial green light, especially during evening hours, serves to decrease natural production of melatonin in the brain at similar levels to the blue light spectrum. [3][4][8]
As opposed to the cool-light spectrum, lighting using colors on the warm spectrum, which includes yellow, orange, and red tones, demonstrated health improvements. Research suggests that warm-light tones do not negatively impact melatonin secretion [6] and, in another study, Lin et al. [5] found that being in a room illuminated with lights on the warm light-spectrum increased production of both melatonin and glutamate, a neurotransmitter that plays an important role in learning and memory. Despite these benefits, however, there is research that suggests that exposure of high levels of any light color decreases subjective feelings of sleepiness and increases feelings of vigilance and arousal [2]; so, even while using beneficial warm lighting, it is important to focus on keeping the lighting low and dim.
So, what does this mean? Based upon current research, the best suggestion is to use bright, cool tones during daytime hours to increase alertness. During the darker, evening hours, when melatonin production and secretion is vital, switching to dim, warmer tones of lighting may create some benefit for sleep.”
How to Implement These Suggestions into Your Life
Now that we know how cooler tones affect your circadian rhythm, what can you do to increase your quality of sleep at night?
Here are Monica’s suggestions:
- Eliminate or decrease the use of back-lit electronics devices in the one to two hours before bed. This continues to be the strongest recommendation to minimize the impact of artificial light on sleep.
- If you absolutely cannot unplug completely, the use of red, orange, or yellow tinted glasses or screen covers filters some, but not all, blue light. Red lenses and covers have shown to also filter some green light as well.
- Switch some light fixtures in your home from bright, white lights to dim, warm-toned lights. Two hours before bed, switch off the white lighting and turn on warmer lighting. However, remember to use dim, not bright lights, regardless of the color.
If you’re reading on an e-reader or your smartphone, be sure to adjust the settings. It might say “Night Shift” or “Night Mode” depending on what device you’re using. See below for an example of what that looks like.
Is Something Else Affecting Your Ability to Sleep?
If you use warm-colored lights at night and practice good sleep hygiene, but still struggle to get a good night of sleep, it’s worth mentioning to your mental healthcare provider. Racing thoughts, insomnia, and anxious thoughts can keep you from a peaceful night of sleep. According to the National Alliance on Mental Health, about 50% of insomnia cases are connected to psychological distress, anxiety, or depression. If a mental health condition or past trauma is keeping you from getting the sleep you deserve, you may benefit from treating the underlying condition. Cognitive-behavioral therapy, for example, can help you control the unwanted thoughts that keep you awake at night.
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and panic disorder are also known for causing nightmares and night terrors. According to the US Department of Veteran Affairs, as many as 96% of those with PTSD experience nightmares. Treatment for PTSD or panic disorder can also help eliminate nightmares and other sleep problems associated with the condition.
Here at Next Step 2 Mental Health, we provide comprehensive mental health care. Whether anxiety, trauma, PTSD, or other forms of psychological distress are impacting your ability to sleep, we can help you get the relief you need. Call 502-339-2442 or send us a message to request more information.
About Monica Clark
You can request an appointment with Monica here.
References
- Blume, C., Garbazza, C., & Spitschan, M. (2019). Effects of light on human circadian rhythms, sleep, and mood. Somnologie, 23(3), 147-156.
- Figueiro, M. G., Bierman, A., Plitnick, B., & Rea, M. S. (2009). Preliminary evidence that both blue and red light can induce alertness at night. BMC neuroscience, 10, 105.
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- Thomas, Liji. (2019). Artificial Light Exposure and Circadian Rhythm. News-Medical. Retrieved from https://www.news-medical.net/health/Artificial-Light-Exposure-and-Circadian-Rhythm.aspx.
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How to Tell If You Have a Social Anxiety Disorder
It’s normal to experience occasional nervousness in social situations. For example, you might feel butterflies if you’re going on a first date, or if you have to give an important presentation at work. However, occasional nervousness isn’t the same thing as social anxiety disorder. With social anxiety disorder, everyday social situations can create stress and anxiety that disrupts your life.
The good news is that social anxiety disorder (sometimes called social phobia) can be treated, but the first step is to get a proper diagnosis.
So how do you know if you have social phobia? We’ve got the answers here.
Symptoms of Social Anxiety Disorder
All of us experience uncomfortable emotions to some degree on a daily basis. This can include:
- Unease
- Apprehension
- Worry
- Nervousness
With periodic stressors, the body only has episodic reaction to the stressors. It’s not on-going. For instance, after your big presentation at work, you no longer feel stressed or uneasy. The uncomfortable feelings end when the periodic stressor stops. When anxiety symptoms develop into ongoing states of distress, it can lead to a diagnosis. With social anxiety disorder, you might feel these uncomfortable emotions just thinking about social situations. The on-going stress and anxiety can disrupt your life.
Signs and symptoms of social phobia include emotional, physical, and avoidance symptoms.
Emotional symptoms
Emotional symptoms include:
- Fear of social situations (fear of being judged)
- Anxiety about embarrassing yourself
- Fear of talking (or interacting) with strangers
- Replaying social interactions over and over in your head
- Feeling anxiety in anticipation of social interactions
- Fearing future events
Physical symptoms
Physical symptoms of social anxiety include:
- Blushing
- Flushed face or neck
- Intense sweating
- Shaky voice when speaking
- Upset stomach
- Rapid heartbeat
- Dizziness
Avoidance symptoms
Social phobia can impact the quality of your life, especially if you avoid activities or events that trigger anxiety. Avoidance symptoms include:
- Avoiding activities that require interaction with others (such as going to the grocery store, speaking to a waitress, etc.)
- Cancelling events with friends or family
- Avoiding any situation in which you might be the center of attention (public speaking, giving a speech, etc.)
Can children experience social anxiety? Yes. Children might refuse to speak, hide behind parents, and have a temper tantrum.
Treating Social Anxiety Disorder
Left untreated, social phobia can lead to low self-esteem, poor social skills, and difficulty maintaining relationships. The good news is that social anxiety disorder can be treated. Like all anxiety disorders, individuals with social phobia can benefit from mental health care. Common treatments include:
- Psychotherapy, including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
- Medication (You can learn about medication management here.)
You can also reduce stress and anxiety by making time for activities you do enjoy, keeping a journal, and regularly practicing stress management techniques. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, exercise (including gentle walking) can help boost your mood and reduce stress. [1]
Can a Pandemic Trigger Social Anxiety?
Pandemics can be stressful on individuals and entire families. Over the past few months, we’ve learned about a new disease — and a whole host of new social conventions. We’ve learned about social distancing, isolation, and how often (and what) items needs to be disinfected. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), stress, depression, and anxiety are increasing. [2]
Many individuals find that going into public right now can be scary… but can a pandemic trigger social anxiety?
To find out, we asked Dr. Brian Briscoe.
Let’s start with a correct definition of social anxiety. DSM V defines social anxiety as a “A persistent fear of one or more social or performance situations in which the person is exposed to unfamiliar people or to possible scrutiny by others…that is persistent, typically lasting 6 or more months.”
I do not have evidence that social anxiety will necessarily increase in post-pandemic times, but I do suspect that we may see an increase in overall rates of anxiety disorders in general.
Why?
Based on a study recently published in JAMA, we know that U.S. adults are experiencing a significantly higher degree of psychological distress during the Covid public health crisis. [3]
It is quite likely that higher rates of psychological distress will trigger existing pre-existing mental illness within vulnerable persons, and may also lead to the development of new mental illness, which include many anxiety disorders such as panic disorder, agorophobia, and PTSD – to name a few.
In my clinical practice, I have personally witnessed the stress/distress of Covid-19 trigger worsening symptoms in persons who struggle with a numeber of anxiety disorders such as Generalized Anxiety Disorder, PTSD, and Panic Disorder.
The good news is that we have treatments for these situations.
How Do You Tell the Difference Between Social Anxiety and Generalized Anxiety?
If you’re struggling with ongoing states of distress and feelings of anxiety, how do you know if you’re dealing with social anxiety or generalized anxiety?
Dr. Briscoe explains the difference:
Persons who struggle with generalized anxiety disorder tend to struggle with a broad variety of worries. They might:
- Have trouble turning their mind off
- Worry about lots of things
- Sweat the small stuff
- Worry about school, bills, finances, relationships, lots of things.
The worry may sometimes cause restlessness, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, irritability, or trouble sleeping.
Persons who struggle with social anxiety (a.k.a. social phobia), on the other hand, tend to experience a high degree of anxiety primarily in social settings, or in situations in which they fear they will be scrutinized or ‘judged’ by others.
Some people who struggle with social anxiety also struggle with generalized anxiety and vice versa, but not always.
Explore Your Next Steps
At NextStep 2 Mental Health, we provide comprehensive and compassionate anxiety treatment. Whether you’ve been struggling with generalized anxiety or social anxiety disorder, we can help you feel better. Give us a call at our Louisville, Kentucky office at 502-339-2442, or send us a message to request more information.
You can also request an appointment with our convenient scheduling tool here.
About Dr. Briscoe
Dr. Brian Briscoe is a board-certified psychiatrist and the medical director of adult programs. Dr. Briscoe was voted a “Top Doctor” by Louisville Magazine. You can make an appointment with Dr. Briscoe here .
References:
- https://adaa.org/living-with-anxiety/managing-anxiety/exercise-stress-and-anxiety
- https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/daily-life-coping/managing-stress-anxiety.html
- Emma E. McGinty, Rachel Presskreischer, Hahrie Han, Colleen L. Barry. Psychological Distress and Loneliness Reported by US Adults in 2018 and April 2020. JAMA, 2020; DOI: 10.1001/jama.2020.9740